| We should have learned breastfeeding
as we grew up watching our sisters, mothers, and neighbors, all
of whom nursed their own children. In our bottle-feeding
culture, La Leche League may be the next best thing. At
monthly meetings...
You can look. No
two people at a meeting will have the same parenting style. You'll
see things that might work for you and things that wouldn't. Try
what you like and leave the rest.
You can listen. Some
women just want to sit and listen when they come. No one
will pressure you to talk if you don't want to.
You can ask questions. Is
this a normal breastmilk diaper? How can I get my baby to
sleep? Where can I find a good bra? How will I cope with
critics? What do I do with a crying baby?
You can find a playgroup. Playgroups
are for mothers, not children, and finding a group of women who
are raising their babies the way you are can make your job much
easier. Some of the playgroup friendships that start at a
La Leche League meeting last long after the children are grown.
You can find other resources. Looking
for books? The name of a breastfeeding helper in your sister-in-law's
hometown? Information on jaundice or increasing a milk supply? Breastfeeding
literature in Korean? La Leche League is a great place to
start. | You can talk to someone
any time. La Leche League's breastfeeding counselors
are just a phone call away, any time you need to talk.
You can "get out" with your
baby. The meetings are designed with babies
in mind. They're informal, there are toys for toddlers
and snacks for everyone, and no one will mind if you nurse,
change a diaper, soothe a fretful baby, come late, or leave
early. It feels good to get out of the house with your
baby. What better place to come?
You can complain. No
relationship is all roses. Sometimes it helps to complain
among people who have "been there". You can do it at a
La Leche League meeting. Whatever you're going through,
someone there will have had something similar.
You can help someone else. When
you come to a La Leche League meeting, you don't just learn from
other women; other women have a chance to learn from you. You
become part of the pattern of ripples that began at the first
La Leche League meeting in 1956. Those ripples have spread
around the world and are still felt at all the mother-to-mother
get-togethers that are the heart of La Leche League.
©2001 Diane Wiessinger, MS, IBCLC
136 Ellis
Hollow Creek Road Ithaca, NY 14850
Used with permission
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