Dear Elora,
“Eat your dinner! No you can’t have that it’s
got too much sugar, it’s a treat food. It’s o.k.
to have some but too much wouldn’t make it a treat...
Have a piece of fruit instead.”
I’m sure that in your lifetime you have heard me harp
on about food, the do’s and the don’ts. Food was
never a big concern to me until I had you and then your brothers.
It is amazing how much time a mother spends worrying about
whether her children are getting the right amount of vegetables,
iron, calcium and even bulk. It is a wonderful blessing that
we have breast milk to feed our babies for the first six months
while we are just getting used to being a Mum. What a hassle
it would be to add in the concerns over solids any earlier.
Breast milk = Bestmilk. I firmly believe that if breast
milk were not the optimum food for a child under six months
we just wouldn’t produce it. Whatever belief system you
have it just makes sense that we have been designed to provide
the best milk to ensure the survival of the human race.
Milk from other species of mammal differs according to what
is needed of the infant. A cow must be able to stand fairly
quickly so its milk is designed to build muscles. A human has
a far superior intellect so human milk is designed with growing
brains in mind. Why would we feed any animal, milk from another
that is so different? I know I wanted human babies – so
I fed them milk designed to grow healthy humans! It also follows
that if milk from other mammals is just as good as human milk,
why don’t we all produce the same milk?
I was amazed when I read an article stating that scientists
had discovered approximately 700 different components in human
milk. That makes for an impressive chemical make up. Commercial
formulae must have 40 components; the top of the range has
about 80. I don’t think this point needs any further
elaboration.
Breast milk is not just a food either. It is a powerful
medicinal elixir. Breast milk provides the infant with its
first "immunological booster". The antibodies passed
to a baby from its mother via milk are also species-specific.
That is, they deal with the diseases we humans suffer from.
I don’t think we need immunological protection from fly
strike!
Breast milk is far superior to the palate as well. When
one feeds a child formula, it has the same flavour every feed.
I know I would certainly be fed up if I could only eat bread,
even if I loved it the first few times. Breastmilk changes
flavour, albeit subtly, according to the mothers diet. Herbs
and spices, different vegetables, fruits, cereals and meats
all have an effect on the breast milk produced and so the tastebuds
are developing sensitivity and perhaps even preference at an
early age. |
For the mother, breast milk has a few extra
advantages that aid her throughout feeding but especially in
those first six months. It’s cheap! Someone told me that
for every year you breastfeed rather than formula feed you save
the cost of a major household appliance. I’ve got a feeling
this is an important thing for fathers as well. I’m half
convinced your Dad thought that meant we could afford the home
theatre system.
Breast milk is also always ‘on tap’ – it
is carefully stored, always sterile, at the right temperature
and can be made whilst being consumed. There is no need to
get up on a cold winter’s night, with a hungry baby screaming,
heating the bottle of formula, which you hopefully remembered
to make up before you went to bed. When you go out you do not
need to take a cooler bag to keep the milk fresh and hope there
is a microwave to heat it up.
And lastly, I’ll tell you my favourite benefit for
the mother – prolactin. This is a delicious hormone secreted
whilst feeding, which not only calms the baby, it relaxes the
mum. Some women experience the effects of prolactin to a varying
degree but for me it was just heaven. I could feel tension
slip away as I fed my babies; my patience for toddlers increased,
all was good. I particularly noticed the lack of it once I
weaned Lucas. I remember saying to your father, "Aren’t
the children just getting impossible at the moment?" He
looked confused and said he hadn’t detected a change
in you both. It dawned on me that the change was that I was
no longer getting a hit of my ‘mellow juice’. I
remember joking that it would be great if they could manufacture
it as a pill – I’d be a customer!
Mothering is challenging enough in the first few months
without adding in concerns about feeding anything other than
breast milk. Trust nature – it hasn’t let us down
yet!
Mum.
Nadine Walmisley,Christchurch South
AROHA March - April 2003 Volume 5 Issue 2
Nadine has written about her mothering beliefs to give
to her daughter, Elora (who is now six) when Elora is first
pregnant . Editor.
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